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Title: Tung Shew Nan and Hew Ting in Towshan, Toishan, China (English)
Date: Unknown
Donor: Tong, Poy
Subject: China, Exclusion, Family Separation, Marriage and Dating
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Set: 1 of 2
Language: ENG

Tong, Poy

Poy Tong was born in Guangdong Province, China. His mother, Hew Ting, raised her three sons in China while her husband, Tung Shew Nan (also known as Dong Shou), worked overseas in Canada. After The Chinese Immigration Act, 1923 was repealed, Hew Ting and her sons applied to come to Canada. Only she and Poy were approved to receive visas because her other sons’ answers were deemed unacceptable by immigration officials at the Canadian Consulate in Hong Kong. Hew Ting waited six months in the hopes that the family could travel together, but was forced to leave behind her two sons in China when Canadian immigration threatened to cancel the visas. After making appeals to Canadian Immigration, the Tungs were reunited with their remaining sons, who joined the family months later in the town of Delhi, Ontario. The Tungs lived above the family’s restaurant and each family member was expected to contribute to the successful operation of the business. After moving to Toronto as an adult, Poy Tong worked for Canada Post and raised a family with his wife, Yuen Har. At the time of the interview, Poy Tong was a volunteer in school literacy programs.

Tung Shew Nan and Hew Ting’s marriage was arranged by family members who visited a fortune teller to determine if it was a good match. There was a 14-year age difference between them. This photo was taken not long after their marriage. It was not uncommon for Chinese men working overseas to return to China to find a wife. Many men working in Canada began families in China so that they could continue the family line. Even though they did not know how long the Exclusion Period (1923-1947) would separate them from their families, these ‘bachelor men’ hoped that one day they would be able to retire in China or bring their families over to Canada.